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i'll call his/her nicknames when we're closed..if we just met and haven't don't know about each other i'll call his/her full name cause it'll be more polite i guess..cause i don't want to be so rude with people i just met ((:

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I see..thank you guys for your answers but let me rephrase it:

When will you call a person you are close to by his/her full name?

For example:When will someone call me Mihaela instead of Miya even though we are close?

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When they feel comfortable enough to? If you're talking about someone specific and you would like them to, then bring it up some day. Say, "Why don't you ever call me Mihaela?" of course it's best to approach things like this carefully so it doesn't get awkward. If you don't like a nickname or something it's best to just say so. If you want something to change sometimes its better to not just sit around and wait for it.

 

So, just nonchalantly ask "Why don't you ever call me Mihaela?" with a smile. As if you're really just curious and then gauge their reaction to see if its something serious or just them preferring to call you by a shorter name.

 

Now if you're asking US when WE would feel comfortable enough to call someone by their full name then I cant really help you with that. As a matter of fact I call people by their full name until I'm comfortable with them and then I shorten it. Like I have friends whos names are Samantha and Alisha. I haven't called them that in a while, lately its just been Sam and Ali. So I can't really help you there D:

 

On another note though I have a QUESTION too but its about the forums. Does anyone know why I can't go back to an older post and edit it even though the thread is open and everything? Can you not edit them after a certain amount of time? Because I went into the first posts of an rp of mine to edit the format of the post and I couldn't edit the older ones but I could edit the newer ones.

 

I didn't know where to ask this ._.

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for your answer,and you should ask the moderators from the rp section in a vm or something ^_^

My question was not how should i make a person call me by my full name,that was just an example but i wanted to know why you guys call ppl by their full names,i like being called both so that's not a problem.

I agree that when you first meet a person you'll use the full name because i do that too but personally i only use the full name with a person i'm close too when i want to show more affection or if i scold them for something ahahahhaha.

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well to answer that question..hmm... that's a trick one...

because it depends on what everyone calls you.

example: i have a friend whom everyone calls by his last name. however, his close friends call him by his first name.

on the other hand i have a friend whom everyone calls by her first name. but her close friends call her by her nickname.

 

so, in my opinion, when you feel like you are close enough with someone, you just feel free to call the other person by every name! first, last, full, nickname. whatever it is you call him/her you won't feel weird at all! it will be natural.

 

But just like Miya, i also say the full name of my close friends to scold them! :p

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Ummm...

 

I see...

 

I also have 2 friends call my real name when we talk...

 

But it's just the time to "Emphasize" each person...

 

And not all time ;)

 

Just for fun, Miya :)

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On another note though I have a QUESTION too but its about the forums. Does anyone know why I can't go back to an older post and edit it even though the thread is open and everything? Can you not edit them after a certain amount of time? Because I went into the first posts of an rp of mine to edit the format of the post and I couldn't edit the older ones but I could edit the newer ones.

 

I didn't know where to ask this ._.

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And thank you Hoshi (

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You're welcome :)

 

 

 

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One more question from me today..

 

If someone who is always nice & adorable to me, use some "RUDE" words to you.

 

That manner scares you a lot.

 

What will you do?

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You're welcome :)

 

 

 

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One more question from me today..

 

If someone who is always nice & adorable to me, use some "RUDE" words to you.

 

That manner scares you a lot.

 

What will you do?

 

I would ask what made that someone act like that ^_^

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umm...your not crazy..this situation is normal to human being..

all you have to do is to express what you really feel without hurting or annoying someone,

maybe the one (things,events or person) that makes you happy is totally the one that makes you blue at the same time.

or if you prefer, you should give your self a little space or time to relax and contemplate about that thing.

 

..hahah! that's all,I hope I'm a little help to you :)

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Question: Why do ppl tend to ignore a person that is single but when that person already has someone he/she loves they become attracted?

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I think it's natural instinct ;)

 

I used to be as you said....

 

Hahaha ;)

 

 

Maybe men or women; when he or she's occupied, some charming starts growing, ne~!!! ;)

 

 

It's strange but true, my dear

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I guess you're right Hoshi (

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) ^^ because ppl tend to act sweeter with the person they love

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ln part it is due to on a subconsious level we still have a hunter /gatherer mentality so when we some one who is already paired up with some one the subconsious thought is that they will be a good provider/mother and they then become more interesting to us. lts a theory anyway.

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I have a question..

 

This Sunday will be my elder sister's birthday..

 

I don't know what should I give her...

 

She doesn't make up...

 

She doesn't like travel....

 

Ohh...

 

I need help :)

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You should give your elder sister something that she likes or has an interest in.. obviously i dont know but i'm very sure you know ^_^

but lets say for example, if she likes reading then buy her a book? ^^

you could buy her something that relates to her Personality,

For example, If your sister is the Artistic type then you could buy her something to do with Art?

 

anyway i hope this helps but i'm not sure lol at least i tried XDDDD

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Thanks a lot, sweetie....

 

It's really hard for me to find her a present..

 

Because she has EVERYTHING she wants.

 

Yes, she loves reading & she buys the books she wants...

 

And all IT stuffs, she has all...

 

Oh, so difficult ...

 

Anyway, thanks a lot for your idea ^^ !!

 

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No, she isn't.

 

She has only a golden ring & a watch..

 

She says that's enough for her...

 

 

Anyway, thanks a lot, Lisa ^^

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I personally don't get angry most of the time,i'm calm and try to find solutions the moment i know the problem but if i do get agry...it's not pretty...i go as far away from ppl and crush some things and sometimes cry and then go back and fix it XD

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