Elii Posted July 18, 2013 Share Posted July 18, 2013 Please Register/ Sign In, in order to see the links. You are so cute! *pats her head* Hmmm. I don't have a crush here yet, I don't know if I will have in the future. I think it's okay to have a crush but know your limitations. We really don't know what's the true personality of the person until we know them in real life. In my case, I had a boyfriend I met online and he's really nice but it end up losing interest because he's too far away and I believe LDR are really hard to manage. Now I know I can't enter that kind of relationship. I don't have patience at waiting. Just enjoy the moment for now ne~ Good luck! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Drag Posted July 18, 2013 Share Posted July 18, 2013 Nop ^_^ Probably because I keep running around with a lace wig on my head and screaming "chicken fry!" LOOOOOOOOOL Pfft. --edit-- You're missing a dancing gif to go with your wig lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dev Posted July 18, 2013 Share Posted July 18, 2013 Pfft. --edit-- You're missing a dancing gif to go with your wig lol You are right! Well I enjoy dancing like this... In the kitchen, whilst walking around, in my room, bathroom... LOL Whilst cooking, washing dishes, vacuum cleaning, you name it! The dance: Matching song: This was my SONG back in highschool *chuckles* - - - Updated - - - Oh forgot to tag you Please Register/ Sign In, in order to see the links. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MayDream1010 Posted July 18, 2013 Author Share Posted July 18, 2013 Please Register/ Sign In, in order to see the links. Thanks so much. Everybody were very sweet to answer me. But Please Register/ Sign In, in order to see the links. and Please Register/ Sign In, in order to see the links. I think you choose a wrong thread to play. If you can't answer to my question please don't post anything here. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Drag Posted July 18, 2013 Share Posted July 18, 2013 Please Register/ Sign In, in order to see the links. - My fault, not his. To answer your question it's understandable people develop online crushes and as long as they're being safe, just like with face-to-face relationships, there's nothing wrong or bad with it imho. On a personal note: Although I can be attracted to the persona offered by people online sometime, I myself have never had what you could call a full-blown crush or "relationship" online since I'm not any good with relationships irl either, but I know people who have. Sometimes it leads to more, sometimes not. But I do know technology opens a LOT more opportunities for love to travel across the world and bring hearts together that would otherwise never have met. It can be a beautiful thing actually. That being said, I wish my luck to anyone who finds what they're looking for in life irl/online that makes them feel like a complete person. Or at least happy for as long as possible. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MayDream1010 Posted July 18, 2013 Author Share Posted July 18, 2013 Please Register/ Sign In, in order to see the links. Thank you for your answer. I will fight for my love no matter what. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Drag Posted July 18, 2013 Share Posted July 18, 2013 @ Please Register/ Sign In, in order to see the links. Not everyone fights for what they want in love and life - they just give it up when things get hard. Your seme's a lucky person to have you, true. Luck to you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dev Posted July 18, 2013 Share Posted July 18, 2013 Please Register/ Sign In, in order to see the links. It was not my intention to make humour out of the topic. As a DIRECT answer to the topic in question... I believe it is inevitable to develop feelings towards other members on forums, social media and online video games however as Please Register/ Sign In, in order to see the links. rightly stated: Although I can be attracted to the persona offered by people online sometime, I myself have never had what you could call a full-blown crush or "relationship" online Though this was a personal insight into the topic at hand i would like to elaborate with my own ideologies and opinions. Firstly, the person you meet online is merely a personality behind an avatar. This is the case in video games and in social media. If you count how many people stutter on this forum when typing (not for stylistic effects but for the hell of it) you will understand that people CREATE the persona they WISH PEOPLE TO SEE. Often this can be a downside as people then have the ability to mask any ugly/undesirable features of their personality and hide behind pictures of their favourite celebrities (an example). Secondly, there are people that fall in love with a 50/50 personality to physical appearance. One can not get that from staring at a member's avatar that happens to be a character from Naruto in an awkward pose and a glass of wine... In conclusion, reality and fantasy are combined online therefore in my opinion REAL LOVE can not be formed without getting to know someone on a more personal level (eg via skype). One can take a liking to certain members based on their personality however you can never have a FULL BLOWN crush without getting to know more personal things about the person related to the crush. A crush by definition is: "an intense but usually short-lived infatuation." Someone can be attracted to a personality but intense feelings would be hard to develop if there is no personal connection (either as friends or as something more). Apologies for my initial response as my post was not supposed to come across as mockery of having infatuation towards someone. I simply wanted to add that I PERSONALLY have no "crush"/infatuations with any members on this forum. Since I openly embrace my wild, often eccentric/comic personality I thought it only fitting to lighten the mood with a slight joke, where the laughter is at my expense. Take care guys and never stop believing (you will find someone that loves you! I count on it!), Dev xo Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chupacabre Posted July 18, 2013 Share Posted July 18, 2013 I am actually planning my move right now, a big one, across the ocean, to be with my love, who I met on here. That being said, I agree with Please Register/ Sign In, in order to see the links. , on here all you get is a persona and a bit of their personality, a video messaging service is a good way to get to know them better, I use skype. Unless of course you are fine with having something casual that will only be online, which some people are, and there's nothing wrong with that. We all have different needs, I need to be closer, so I'm moving Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Alejandro Posted July 19, 2013 Share Posted July 19, 2013 Agree with Dev here, sweetie. Well, I do have someone I like here but she's too dense. Still I am planning to meet her three years from now, at least that's what I have planned but that being said, does your crush knows you have a crush on him or her? Ya have to think carefully of what you're doing and don't let yourself get hurt. Tbh, I dunno if I was going to laugh at this, no offense but when I saw that, "i'm going to fight for my love" thing that you said, well, it's natural you do that but ya have to think that this is the internet. Say that if you have the capability to meet him/her in person & make it come true. Ya might have a huge crush now to a person but you do not know if the person he's/she's showing to everyone is the real him/her. He/She covers a portion of who he/she is when he's/she's on the internet. Am not discouraging you it's just that i'm telling you the obvious truth, at least for me. Don't mean to be rude, too. But in the end, do what you think is good for you without forgetting the reality, this is the internet. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MayDream1010 Posted July 19, 2013 Author Share Posted July 19, 2013 Please Register/ Sign In, in order to see the links. , Please Register/ Sign In, in order to see the links. , Please Register/ Sign In, in order to see the links. Thanks to all. You are so smart. rabbit13 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
saichiXkun Posted July 20, 2013 Share Posted July 20, 2013 Please Register/ Sign In, in order to see the links. wow its nice feeling that.. well actually me too xD.. I like someone here too xD.. and never thought about that ... that person is boy here and even he's straight here he open with that kind of relation ^///^ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Veil Posted July 20, 2013 Share Posted July 20, 2013 interesting, I might. but the person well is my little secret But i dont know if the person is ever aware of the small crush i have. Well i will not say anything for now. I just choose not to speak of it to the person. Anyway. yeah. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lao☆kun Posted July 20, 2013 Share Posted July 20, 2013 When i first joined, and got the welcome from the administrator... O///O I believe in love at first sight! Σ( ° △ °|||)︴ but wait... (/ ll▔ Д ▔)/ We're in two different worlds!!! ( __ __ ) curse you cruel world.. you vanquish me If you love something let it go, If it comes back it were meant to be. (/T ~ T)/~ I let you free m'love! (╯n╰) come baacck ....... ( ._.) I never even told him.. How the hell he's gonna come back. :hamtaro-005 (21): Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MayDream1010 Posted July 20, 2013 Author Share Posted July 20, 2013 Thanks to all for being so nice to me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gin Posted July 20, 2013 Share Posted July 20, 2013 Hmm I can't relate that much since I don't have a crush in here. HAHA let's just say that it's hard to develop some feelings for someone that you haven't seen. It's just impossible for me to be infatuated for someone here, though friends---or close friends are much acceptable. HAHA You might not know he/she's a yandere or what (*creepy as f) or masking their oh-so-awesome attitude. (눈_눈) It's just me--don't worry bout' it, tis' normal. I had a friend who's so gaga about a moderator in a certain forum site. Agree's on Please Register/ Sign In, in order to see the links. completely. HAHA Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Revenga Posted July 21, 2013 Share Posted July 21, 2013 I neither have a crush here nor in real life. To be honest, I never had anyone I liked before or even had a crush on or even as of the moment. I definitely understand you since my friends are like those and I often get dragged anywhere just to see their crushes and I cannot say no but as your new friend, I should tell you that I agree with Ms. Elii, Ms or Mr. Drag, Mr. Dev and Mr. Alejandro. They just said what I was about to say. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Silver Radiance Posted July 22, 2013 Share Posted July 22, 2013 Please Register/ Sign In, in order to see the links. I have one piece of advice for you and I hope you consider it heavily regardless of what may happen. Make sure you BOTH are fighting for the relationship. Like a face to face relationship, give and take is required for it to work and it is much harder online because let's face it, words are cheap. Actions will be your guide to tell you how serious the person is about the relationship. The last thing you want is to look back and realise you were the only one putting in effort, taking chances/risks and making things work. It is the most lonely and depressing realisation you will ever face. You are worth a great deal of effort so make sure you pay keen attention to how much effort this person is making for you. It can work, but only if you both work together to realise it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MayDream1010 Posted July 23, 2013 Author Share Posted July 23, 2013 Please Register/ Sign In, in order to see the links. , Please Register/ Sign In, in order to see the links. , Please Register/ Sign In, in order to see the links. Thank you for your nice words. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sebastian Izumi Posted August 5, 2013 Share Posted August 5, 2013 Never had a crush on somebody~~ I don't have that many friends yet so *sad* Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shio Posted August 5, 2013 Share Posted August 5, 2013 Please Register/ Sign In, in order to see the links. i can say ur feeling is great, romantic even ur love can't become true but it's not wrong but make sure u don't make urself hurt, remember it well, this is online, u may not be able to meet ur crush in real life even if u meet her, u can't be sure that u will love her for her real personality so have fun as much as u can in this forum, but don't get hurt bc of this in ur real life. my life, i never have a crush before, but here i'm not sure yet... u know what my friends in real life think i'm crazy, but they still like me the way i am and i have a lot of friends in fb that fall for me *scratch head* both girls and boys, i really no clue why. the point i want to tell u is even i don't have feel for them but i really happy bc they let me know i've been loved i think ur seme will be the same, u should confess to her. (i think u will be more relief if u can say what in ur mind, be brave dear, even if the result not as u wish, but u two still can be friends *pats head*) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MayDream1010 Posted August 6, 2013 Author Share Posted August 6, 2013 Please Register/ Sign In, in order to see the links. , Please Register/ Sign In, in order to see the links. Thanks for your words. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Musica Posted August 19, 2013 Share Posted August 19, 2013 Please Register/ Sign In, in order to see the links. crush...kinda,,, it happened right after i joined YO. before joining this forum..i always thought of myself as a potential seme..never an uke.. then, do you remember that first message you get . the one by Key-san... "Welcome to Yaoi Otaku Forum : The Yaoi Forums" after seeing Key's avatar/profile pic... i don't know how to describe the feeling...smitten i guess?.. i still have a crush on his pic up to now lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MayDream1010 Posted September 2, 2013 Author Share Posted September 2, 2013 Please Register/ Sign In, in order to see the links. you are so funny. Thanks. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Musica Posted September 2, 2013 Share Posted September 2, 2013 Please Register/ Sign In, in order to see the links. but it's the truth..he's avatar is just overflowing with...Ggrrr! don't know the word... seme-ness?... and just thinking about it now makes me feel like jelly...leaf3.. must think of something else..*whistling* i just read your post Please Register/ Sign In, in order to see the links. ... i totally get how you feel...*softly patting your head* Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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