cei1104 Posted July 21, 2013 Share Posted July 21, 2013 When I first got a date with somebody, he asked me out knowing that I was gay, and I always wondered how he knew... I wonder if its some kind of feel or atmosphere.. as for myself, I really can't find out unless one tells me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
UndertheWeather Posted July 21, 2013 Share Posted July 21, 2013 Er, you could always ask the guy. The answer could be as simple as someone (be it a friend or a classmate) who knew of your sexuality told him so. Don't think there's a "feel" or "atmosphere". Here's an interesting Please Register/ Sign In, in order to see the links. , if you like. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
andreanitzoo Posted July 23, 2013 Share Posted July 23, 2013 Usually, in my country, some gay guy will dressed so casually or styling his hair neatly, but also he will give some kind gay 'pheromone' or atmosphere around.. And the most common thing is he must be unbelievably HANDSOME and HOT! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anessen Posted July 23, 2013 Share Posted July 23, 2013 Eh, I have just noticed by following a guy's eyes. Usually how a person looks at you can give a lot away (that's how one guy knew I was interested in him). Some can say stereotypical things work (lisp, strut when they walk, dress very well, etc.), but not everybody fits the bill. I'm a man who speaks very low, almost southern voice, most of my wardrobe is from Wal-mart and Fangamer, and I do not act flamboyant at all. Eyes and how a person moves around another gives away a lot more. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sparkly Emo Kitten Posted July 23, 2013 Share Posted July 23, 2013 As Anessen said, one of the best ways to tell if someone is gay is to observe how someone looks at other people as well as their facial expressions. There are subtle facials cues that people tend to show very briefly upon experiencing certain emotions (called micro expressions) that are nearly impossible to control. You should be cautious when using stereotypical behavior to determine a person's sexual orientation. Not everyone lives up to stereotypes. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
1978 Posted July 24, 2013 Share Posted July 24, 2013 I feel it when I see or talk to him. And I find that he is more girlish than I can be.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tsubakihime Posted July 24, 2013 Share Posted July 24, 2013 Hmm, I think men in general are usually homophobe, so they don't do anything like holding hands with other men and only hug them a veeery manly way. But this is, of course, a clear signal that gay couples don't usually do openly. Then I guess, i agree with the above, although that requires a careful observation. But I don't think one can clearly differentiate gay and non gay just from the look, because some people use certain look and behaviour as their style. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
john faka Posted July 24, 2013 Share Posted July 24, 2013 :leaf2:actually,for me i can catch it quickly by looking at their eyes.seriously.its an amazing gift that i'm not proud of. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Noeli Posted August 2, 2013 Share Posted August 2, 2013 I can guess by 2 things 1) expression/movements being it the face or body and 2) the eyes. Till now I haven't guessed wrong... then again I have to deal with a lot of people every single day, in a way you gain experience like that I guess. However this only counts for males, females I'm clueless... I'll only know when they approach me in a way. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Myo-kun Posted August 17, 2013 Share Posted August 17, 2013 I have no 'gaydar' at all, I'd like to know myself xD In some cases, it's sort of 'obvious' I guess... I know a couple of guys that seemingly put an effort in fitting into every cliche or stereotype about gays... In other cases, no clue. Taking myself for example, a couple of my friends once said I'm the most straight seeming queer they know. I'm bisexual, but whilst I'm not a macho dumbass, I don't really fit into any cliches and I'm definitely not all that 'in touch with my feminine side' or whatever xD I guess the only way someone'd spot it would be if they caught me checking a guy out *smirk* Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Runeko Posted August 17, 2013 Share Posted August 17, 2013 Well...There is a "Gaydar" aspect with it,but that usually only comes when you yourself are not straight.It's easier to seek out your own,I think~nya. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Myo-kun Posted August 17, 2013 Share Posted August 17, 2013 Really? I suck at that ^^'... Nyah, maybe it's because practically all my friends are straight... (even the cute/hot ones T.T) xD Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gin Posted August 21, 2013 Share Posted August 21, 2013 Hmm let's just say intuition since I like observing people. Kufufufu and the way they talk and act probably. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PRINCE_Z_E_T_A Posted August 23, 2013 Share Posted August 23, 2013 I am not quite sure... I am not fond of genders or how sexuality is made to be It just happens. I suppose just like in Junjou the pheromone thing is true hahahahahaha~~!!! rabbit6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Peeta Posted August 24, 2013 Share Posted August 24, 2013 Well I the way I figure out is that when you are talking to someone you maybe think you're gay and when some cute boy or handsome man walks by, that person gives a very fast glare, it's very very fast, that's the thing. That's the way I notice it. Also when I see someone looks at me too much and when I looks at him he just stares somewhere else. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
toby2663 Posted August 24, 2013 Share Posted August 24, 2013 The easiest way if you are that bothered is to just ask them, much more honest and polite than second guessing and making ill formed assumptions about some one based on their outward appearence and your own biased opinion. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shin. Posted August 24, 2013 Share Posted August 24, 2013 My intuition is 80% right when it comes on knowing a gay guy. I don't know how I can determine if a guy is gay. It's just happen. Maybe a gift? Hoho Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
breemania Posted August 29, 2013 Share Posted August 29, 2013 I grew up raised by my gay uncle, so I guess because of it I have a way of watching expressions and movement and how they act around people they like or might like, I can usually tell pretty quickly that way. hehe Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Usagi-chan Posted August 29, 2013 Share Posted August 29, 2013 I would be happy, that's all Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ero Gaki Posted August 29, 2013 Share Posted August 29, 2013 Well, this is hard, considering that i don't have any gay friends or whatsoever. It depends on how accurate my guess is, and if there are signs like blushing towards another male and all that. *activates super intuition* XD Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Marygrace94 Posted October 6, 2013 Share Posted October 6, 2013 hehe.. i don't know.. maybe in his gestures.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Black Rose Posted October 6, 2013 Share Posted October 6, 2013 With some people, it's not hard to tell, but a couple of my friends told me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gatichan Posted February 4, 2014 Share Posted February 4, 2014 No idea. I only have one gay friend, but he was more or less blatantly gay, even though it took him a while to admit it to himself that he was alright and perfect. In another case, I was one hundred percent sure that one of my co-students was gay because he hung around with us girls the whole time and never gave off any I-like-girl-vibes, and in the end he got married to a wonderful girl. But yeah, carefully probing and asking would maybe be the best way if you didn't have any friends who knew about his inclinations Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Auoz Posted July 9, 2014 Share Posted July 9, 2014 Dunno usually someone who keeps to themselves or is kind of girly.. not really sure i think just asking would probably be the easier but awkward way of finding out! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Artist-san Posted July 31, 2014 Share Posted July 31, 2014 i think the way that he looks or how he moves . Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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