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Hello, everyone!!

i was wondering what exactly would a normal mother's reaction be, when she discovers that her son/daughter has been watching homosexual anime (or reading manga)?! mine only knows Naruto (i was obssessd with it before discovering yaoi) and she thinks all anime are about ninjas!! she's too much of an extremist when it comes to morals, so, only imagining what her reaction would be like is creeping me out!! *literally shaking in fear* my parents are extreme catholics... being their fudanshi son isn't that great!!! i would like to hear your honest opinions!! *winks*

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ummm, in case mum found out, you ask? YOU REALLY WANT TO KNOW???

'kay! then!! "hell would freeze over and a lot of people will die a slow and painful death, the world would flood, and cities'll get submerged by water, the moon would fall from it's orbit knocking the planet into the sun, and everyone who didn't drown will get burned alive... and mum'll kill anyone who survives after that!!!" yep,yep! as a matter of fact, my mother finding out about yaoi would be the trigger to the apocalypse!!! so pray people, PRAY FOR YOUR LIVES!!! in case she decides to use my computer when i'm at school...

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hi shurei!! ever heard of the word "obvious exagerations"?! if no, then please go look it up in your dictionnary...

I CLEARLY SAID "HONEST OPINIONS"!!! if i felt like listening to your nonesense i would've phoned you!! moron!

P.S: your mum's a really open-minded person so why would she.... you know, i think you'd do great as a priest! talking about apocalypse that is... that's what you should've wrote in the last "future hopes"s survey we submitted yesterday!

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nah! Lin!! you know i hate books!! and a dictionary is a pile of printed pages, fastened together with a cover; what was it called again?... oh yeah, A BOOK!! So i guess I’ll just ignore your first remark... As for the priest thing, that's a really good idea!! you should've told me earlier, now I’ll have to go to the school's chairman and ask for my application back to change it,*sigh* sounds like a lot of paperwork... BUT STILL, thanks a lot for the brillant idea!!

P.S: Moron yourself!...

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you two never fails to make me smile like an idiot, while reading your conversation, my sister is looking at me like im crazy, hehe

 

well if my parents knew that i watch yaoi anime, i think they wont do some extreme stuff, just lock me in my room and take every piece of technology where i could access yaoi anime, hehe. not too extreme to be honest, hehe

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NOT TOO EXTREME?!! that's the worst threat ever!! i'd rather choose the apocalypse!! cuz in that case everyone would be on the same boat! while, if they took your ipad, the rest of the humanity would still have access to internet... IT WOULD FEEL LONELY!! being the only one left out! (you don't know how it feels... I gues adrian already told you about my phone problem... RIGHT NOW I'M USING HIS COMP!)

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I think my mom would be fine with it because she always tell my brothers and I that she doesn't care if we were gay,bi,les,or straight just as long as we're happy.

 

But I feel uncomfortable with her finding out because i don't want her to be come weird or anything.

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hello pepe120!!

your mother is so.... UNDERSTANDING!! rather, she is the most openminded mum I've ever heard of!!! srsly, lucky to be you!!

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I think my mother would just stare at me and this totally embarrassing, awkward silence would hang heavily in the air between us. I'm not entirely saying my mom's a hypocric, but sentences do come out her mind "yeah, homosexuality is alright...for other people's daughters". I'm too old for her to tell me not to watch yaoi stuff, but she'd probably ask me my I feel I need to watch such stuff and then she'd probably eye my bookshelves filled with manga with fear...

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I think my mother would just be really confused. Most likely, she'd write it off as a "that's youth for you" type of thing. I think she would consider my yaoi fixation as a temporal, experimental stage in my otherwise "normal" development. My mom, although she tries her best to be supportive of a variety of people and orientations (I have a lot of gay friends, as well as friends that aren't restricted to rigid self-definitions of 'straight'), I think she harbors a secret anxiety regarding my 'potentially queer' preferences. For the most part, since I am a shrugging hetero, and somewhat of a gay wannabe, she seems comfortable enough. But, if she were to find my yaoi stash, she simply just wouldn't get it, sweet as she is. I do worry... I really believe my mom is comfortable with gay people, and supportive of free love. But, I think she is afraid of my being gay, of it being a disadvantage for me...and I think she would see my yaoi obsession as a variation on the theme of questioning my sexual identity, etc. sigh oh well

 

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She would just make believe in her head that she never saw it, and that her daughter does not have a fetish for gay animated porn. That would be the end of the matter, and would never be raised again, and if I ever tried. Her hearing would just all of a sudden go or eye sight depending on how I would choose to raise the point.

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Just imagining. Lets see my mother probably chops my heads. *I'm referring to the head chops.. while saying "Hey, what's that?? and I'm just like "nothing mom.. " then, she walks away.

 

that would be her normal reactions. *laughs.

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.I think she'll just give me a meh look. She's an open-minded person but there are still limits of becoming one. Though she might look uninterested; i bet she'll have the shock within.

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Hmmh, since my mother is very religious, I guess that she'd offer to drive the "bad spirits" out of me and tell me to never do such things again.

 

I mean it honestly. This is no joke. This really has happened many times. She always suggests that she drives the bad spirits out of me and I'll be "freed" from my sins etc. etc. This is why I'd prefer to let her think that I'm just your ordinary guy without any weird fetishes about animated gay-porn. LOL.

Pisses me off at times, but well, it's not like I have to live with her under the same roof so... With all respect to my mother who I love, even though she's a bit odd at times, hahaha.

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But, I think she is afraid of my being gay, of it being a disadvantage for me

 

Parents especially mother just want there kids to be normal because normal usually means an easier life, plus they will remember what it was like for gay people when they were growing up and can't help but worry that thigns can still be like that.

 

As for question of what if your mum found your stash take a look at her bookcase, I mean really look and read the jackets on some of them. Those 'romance' books ain't so clean themselves, Mills and Boon anybody - that stuff is... well have a read you'll see. When my mum asked me what I was reading one day when I was over at their house I just replied "gay romantic manga" which sounds a little better than yaoi or BL.

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I don't think she would care about the cutesy stuff, but if she ever saw a sex scene... Uuuuu... -_-" Thinking about her reaction makes me feel uncomfortable!! It wouldn't be severe, but very passive aggressive and disowning. My dad's on the other hand-- We don't talk about that!

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My mom would take me to see psychologist. lol :D

 

I mean, she is not homophobic, but she would probably think that there is something wrong with me, she tends to worry a lot.

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My mother knows that I watch yaoi. Actually, she kind of likes BL. Some of her favourite films are about gay couples (for example she really loves The Wedding Banquet). ^^

 

When she found out I watch yaoi she was just like "you're my daughter after all". She wasn't surprised at all. I think I was more shocked :D I'm proud of my mom, she is so open-minded. She's the only adult around me who thinks it's normal for two males who love each other to live a happy life, to have sex, to adopt chirldren, etc. And she thinks gay couples are cute.

(if anybody is interested how she found out, she found some of my yaoi DVDs in my room.. and started to watched them.)

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My parents know about me liking BL. They never had any problems with it. At least I always know where to find my missing Manga and Anime. *laugh*

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My parents don't know about me liking bl (I hope :D), but my boyfriend does. At first it took him quite long time to "proccess" it (and about 10 cigarrets :D), but now he just tease me about it sometimes and occationally ask me to show him some manga I'm reading. :D

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my parents probably won't mind me interested in homosexual relationships. i even hang a picture of shion and nezumi kissing on my wall and everyone is ok about that (maybe because i haven't told them yet that they're both guys!)

but my pervertness would make them very very very very very angry and a lot more disappointed in me! there is a chance that they even ban me from using internet!!!

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My mom would probably send me a bunch of these . ..

:hamtaro-005 (19): cheetah5rabbit8:2yoyo6::_red_fox 4onion1:hamtaro-005 (23):cheetah4:_red_fox 9:cuteonion41::hamtaro-005 (19):

 

.. . on my phone/email/FB. For real though she loves sending me tons of icons which I don't mind cuz they're cute.

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My mom does not really know about this obsession with the BL. The only ones who know about it are my uncle and my brother. But they do not care (ᗒᗜᗕ)՛̵̖ when my uncle found out about my obsession with the BL was great because he was with his boyfriend at the time! (;-◞౪◟-) If one day my mother hears about this, it is most likely to accept it because it also has accepted the preferences of his brother!

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