peropero Posted February 23, 2015 Share Posted February 23, 2015 nah, guys.. is there really gay here? i have friend in my college. we were often hang out together. but it's just like that. then he confessed to me. he told me that he gay. i like gay stuff but i don't know to answer him, he's like my ideal lover(uke), such a cute kid. it's really unexpectedly. i want to have such a gay relationship but i don't see him that way. i'm afraid if this thing just will happen once and there're no more.. just.. please tell me some advice from your knowledge guys. there're nothing people i can ask about this in real life. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Virdian* Posted February 27, 2015 Share Posted February 27, 2015 You should think about your feelings towards him, and deliberate whether you want to be with him or not. A love relationship can sure be tough, but no one ever said it would be impossible for gay people to live a partnership until they are old. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
1330tango Posted February 27, 2015 Share Posted February 27, 2015 When you say "I don't see him that way" do you mean you only see him as a friend, or you only want to have sex, or a relationship or something else? The only advice I can give is be honest with yourself and your friend. Ask him to be honest with you regarding what he wants in a relationship. In any relationship you need to know where each other stands, then you will have an easier time deciding what you want to do. I believe that love is love regardless of who the partners are. Most of the people I know who have been married/partnered for a long time are best friends. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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