Cinnamon-lover Posted April 15, 2016 Share Posted April 15, 2016 Is anyone else sad as hell right now? *sigh* I've not been this sad in forever (and with "in forever" I mean last month when I was depressed as it gets) anybody want to share their sad stories? I started talking to this really sweet guy not long ago (well, 8 months ago, but still) and I've fallen for him. The thing is, I'm really unsure about what he's feeling and thinking. Today he told me that he was changing schools because he was bored...and it makes me feel like trash, because I'm not enough to make him stay. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rebel Heart Posted April 15, 2016 Share Posted April 15, 2016 Please Register/ Sign In, in order to see the links. Did you tell him your feelings? I think there is no reason to feel so bad about yourself(although love can do real strange stuff with you) Ouch just written a poem about this kind of feeling how awkward can it get. I once loved a guy so much, but in the end he kept sending me mails about how much he hated me and he wished me all kinds of terrible things. this is thank god a long time ago, but to think about it still hurts. So I can Imagen that you are feeling real crap that the one you love is going to leave, But I really think you should give yourself more credit. Sometimes people we love will leave, but others will come, Sometimes we will feel sad and sometimes we don't. In the end just keep your head high and move on. How hard it sounds, keep moving forward is the only thing you can do. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LadyKeya Posted April 16, 2016 Share Posted April 16, 2016 I fell in love with a lie once.......too difficult to explain.......it took me two years to get over the hurt I felt over it. I hate this person with a passion and sometimes I wish it never happened, but then if it hadn't happened, I wouldn't know what I know now. I am more careful because of the damage this person inflicted. So careful that I haven't even tried to find someone new. How tragic am I. *sigh* - - - Updated - - - Sometimes I think about it and it hurts a little less, but it still hurts even if a little. I don't think of this person unless something happens to remind me of them and I think of how foolish and stupid I was to believe their lies. (T _T) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
orangevoldemort Posted May 1, 2016 Share Posted May 1, 2016 Sad is an understatement! I'm trying to fill in a hole created by a friend, She ignores my gestures and just my feelings in general! I think i'm the only one giving that much thought, It's also her birthday soon, she always spends it with just me, but i'm not sure if I should go this year? She's been posting lots of different friends on her social media, who I don't know of, (although she goes to a different school), They might attend her birthday, I don't want to awkward it up, maybe I should just move on. I'm so stuck. I also hope you cheer up soon (▰˘◡˘▰) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xKai Posted May 1, 2016 Share Posted May 1, 2016 I'm sad bcoz my grandpa is sick he has problems with his spine n his heart he's in the hospital to get infiltration n grandma is so sad bcoz of his absence Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kōhei Kuzunoha Posted May 1, 2016 Share Posted May 1, 2016 I was dating a guy once and I thought it was going well...or at least as well as dating a flirtatious effeminate young man would go. Things...happened...and I thought that what we had was special. I mean, he said so himself...and then he decided to give up on me because I wasn't optimistic enough for him. Basically he couldn't deal with someone who doubted his own worth or showed any kind of emotional weakness... I'm happy now, but I have bouts of sadness here and there. When it comes to love, your own thoughts can be your worst enemy... I'm sad bcoz my grandpa is sick he has problems with his spine n his heart he's in the hospital to get infiltration n grandma is so sad bcoz of his absence Give your grandfather my regards. I hope he gets well soon... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blue Moon. Posted May 1, 2016 Share Posted May 1, 2016 Hello cin-chwan! I'm sorry this happened to you, it must be really hurtful to feel like you're not enough for the person you have feelings for. I know saying "don't be sad about it" won't magically make you less sad. I don't know you personally, or this guy, or what the whole story is, I know this though: you are enough to be with someone, you just have to find the right person, so please, don't feel bad about the whole thing cause there is nothing you did wrong. As for the guy leaving schools because he was bored - uhm, do people do this? I mean usually it's a bit more than this, like financial or family reasons, I don't know. Maybe there is a reason behind this and he just don't want to talk about it. In any case, don't ever feel that you have to keep someone in a relationship, cause this shit never works. If the other person isn't crazy about staying then I don't think there is something you can do. You deserve someone for whom you will be a priority, everybody does. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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