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I couldn't ever tell it to my family, but a friend of mine knows of it. Actually, she sort of introduced me to yaoi. And I loved it, so...I became a bigger fan than her, actually.

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My family and friends now I'm bi and that I watch/read anime/manga so I don't think they'd be shocked. In fact one of my childhood friends I'd go out clubbing with crashed on my sofa regular (rented my own flat), anyway he woke up one morning really hungover whilst I was watching anime on my PC - something normal like ghost in the shell - to which he says "oh god you watching that gay anime again". To which I responded with "this isn't gay anime.. now this is gay anime" and put on Junjo Romantica to be honest he wasn't that bothered, laughed and replied "Your such a fag".

 

I'm lucky with my friends but I've always figured, if your honest (I'm not saying you have to 'out' your love of yaoi) with your friends and have a problem with it to the point that the friendship breaks down thats a sad thing but its not your fault and because your doing something wrong.

Family is a different thing and sometimes its better to keep the peace.

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  • 7 months later...

of course I do the same. thst'd my pride. I hide it from everyone. but my be I'll tell my friends someday. actually most of my friends are fujo, all of them like yaoi. And I start like yaoi because I wandering what is it actually about yaoi?

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I'm open about it. Well about my parents, they have no idea that it's adult and perverted..!! They just know I'm into homos. About my friends, I'm way too open about it to the point that they want me to keep it all to myself or they might become contaminated. Hehe^_^ but they're nice and open minded. They just label it as one of my quirks because I've always been the weird one^_^

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  • 3 months later...

I'm way to lazy to explain my addiction if it were found out so I keep it hidden for that reason, but I honestly have no idea what my mom would say >.

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i think it depends on the person. i'm totally not going to say anything about it to my parents. anything sex related is a waste of time and not appropriate for them. but my sister knows about it. although she only know about the yaoi part not the addiction part.

and as for friends... i used to tell them about it and in the worst cases they would just called it bad taste but because of things happened recently i decided to hide it from most ppl.

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To the best of my knowledge, no one in my family knows by my yaoi addiction. I tend to keep quiet and lower the brightness on my phone if I'm near a family member and the curiosity to browse gets the better of me. I also leave my hardcore books in my room on campus and only take the "lighter" material with them when I go back home. Other than that, most of my university friends know about my obsession and I mostly hide it while I'm in public. But as soon as I get back to my flat the conversations start without fail. xD

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There is One friend of mine who kinda knows (she doesn't know I actually obsses about it, but she knows that I kinda like it as much as the """""""regular""""""" anime)

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I wasn't very open about it when I started to like yaoi in 7th grade. A few years later, I started to get VERY open about it. My friends know about my addiction to yaoi. They can tell other people I like yaoi and I wouldn't even mind. I don't talk about it if anyone is uncomfortable with it though. My brother knows I read yaoi. I have yaoi manga at home I ordered and he looked through them. He was like "Holy sht, wtf? I can't believe you get off on this." Haha, that's funny. Now whenever I'm online and I switch tabs, he'd be like "Yaoi, dudes?" He can talk to me about sex, dirty stuff, anything really, and he wouldn't care because my mind is so tainted. That's what he specifically said to me. My parents don't know. They will never find out, meh. My dad almost did once though, he asked to see one of my yaoi books I ordered because it was in Japanese, it was Loveprize in Viewfinder. There was sex everywhere, I had to hurry to find a clean page. Oops. I order the books and they come home, my mom usually gets the mail. She never opens the package though.

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I don't hide it from my friends, although at first I didn't tell anyone because I thought it wasn't a big deal. But when they realized it they were cool with it, and one even got a bit curious. And now everytime she sees cute guys being intimate she fangirls together with me lol.

 

But I hide it from my mom because I think she knows what yaoi is, because she lived in Japan when she was seventeen till her 30s. If I told her I like yaoi, she'd know that the things I read are stuff that kids usually aren't allowed to see. And realize how perverted a kid I am lol. Gotta keep my innocent image XD

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some of my family like my dad when I explained to hem whats the meaning of yaoi he said its ok and he knows that I love yaoi but still hiding it from my mom and my brother knows that I love yaoi and I told my BFF about it and I still hiding it of my other friends

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The only people who know I like yaoi are my two best friends. I hide it from my family because I'm pretty sure that my parents would think there's something wrong with me if I told them. I also have a brother and I would never tell him because he's homophobic. Once I told him that I support homosexual people and he looked at me like I just told him that I killed a puppy.

So I think it's better if I hide it and keep enjoying my addiction quietly ^^ though it would be nice to have someone to talk about it and to fangirl with here with me...

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For me Only my close friends who SHARE the same interest know. Even then it was also how 'hard' did they read yaoi... I read some pretty graphic stuff and I don't really find too many people in real life that actually read the hard-core stuff like me. I have the Fluff friends then I have a Friend who reads the graphic stuff like me XD.

I refuse to tell my family, I have some sisters who are quite against that kinda thing AND my dad. They just know I read anime, I once had to explain what hentai was since it came up in a comedy movie once and I had to explain why I laughed at the joke...But, yea I don't plan on telling my family I read yaoi, I would prefer if they didn't even know the it exisited

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Eh, only a few people know that I'm into yaoi and those people are my girlfriend, my two best friends. Any other friends that know I like yaoi was already into it and I met them through roleplaying yaoi.

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  • 3 weeks later...

I haven't told anyone except my older sister. I would never tell my friends because they are the type of people who make fun of anything Yaoi/BL. My sister knows but she brushes me off if I start talking about anything related. i would never tell my parents either because they don't even agree with same sex marriages.

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  • 2 weeks later...

Yeah i told one of my best friends that i read yaoi. After explaining what yaoi is he was like „WTF ewww you’re reading gay porn“ lol god he acts so pure and innocent sometimes and god knows he's not ;)

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I'm not hiding just do not acting out loud but all my friends and family they know that I am a bookworm and addicted gamer ... so no one care about it. Anyway I do cosplay too >///

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Used to in elementary, but since middle school I've never hid it from friends. I did keep it from my mom until like half way thru college lol. But I'm out and proud.

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my siblings know, my parents don't. my friends don't know though..but that's simply because none of them watch anime and the topic has never really come up

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