현애 Posted May 22, 2011 Share Posted May 22, 2011 I am confuse between love and friendship,:msn_red_fox 7 Thats why i want to do discuss on this topic. are both similar or different please share your opinion here ^^. 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sarah3161 Posted May 22, 2011 Share Posted May 22, 2011 alot of people ask this question:hamtaro-005 (6): i think you cant separate them both need the other to be completed foxy3 you need love in your friendship (like the love to your friend) and you also need friendship in your love (be friendly to your lover) of course the love is different with your friend and your lover :leaf3: hmm i hope that was good foxy1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nena21 Posted May 22, 2011 Share Posted May 22, 2011 They are different for sure. Friendship is when you like talking to a person, but you don't find yourself thinking about him/her all the time and you don't feel any attraction. Love is when you think about that person many times each day, and when you do that, your heart just starts to beat faster. Also, it's love when you are jealous if that person stares at another one, or gives too much attention to another person. Love is when you are happy and you feel like ignoring everybody else just to talk/be with that person. Love is when you are the happiest in the world just when you think that the other one might feel the same for you 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
yaoifangirl Posted May 22, 2011 Share Posted May 22, 2011 I totally agree with the girls who posted above. Love and friendship are different. Friendship is when you like to talk with that person and you want to tell him/her your problems. (I don't know how to explain) :msn_red_fox 13 Love is when your heart beats faster when you think at that person. When you feel an attraction thoward that person. :msn_red_fox 8 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
k0j3t4 Posted May 22, 2011 Share Posted May 22, 2011 Well... Hmmm, friendship is look like best friend for me... And love, is the one we care and we'll always want to get near him/her.. But sometimes friendship can become a love... I already feel it... Hahaha... 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
goki Posted May 22, 2011 Share Posted May 22, 2011 i agree with them, but can i laugh first foxy4 its easy friend mean "ME" love mean "HIM" 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
k0j3t4 Posted May 22, 2011 Share Posted May 22, 2011 i agree with them, but can i laugh first foxy4 its easy friend mean "ME" love mean "HIM" Lol You're right!!! hahahaha... 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
goki Posted May 22, 2011 Share Posted May 22, 2011 Lol You're right!!! hahahaha... thanks k0j3t4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
K Posted May 23, 2011 Share Posted May 23, 2011 . .friendship and love are CONNECTED . .literally speaking, friendship is a relationship between friends, and love is everyone's natural feeling . .except from friends, our family, lovers and people who we met everyday were connected to us because of these two important things . .WE MAKE FRIENDS and we do had friends because we loved and loved by, WE LOVE because we want to make a special bond with those people and that's FRIENDSHIP 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JuJu Posted June 8, 2011 Share Posted June 8, 2011 You may live without a normal friend...but you feel like you can't even live, breathe or do anything without your lover. Some lovers say to each other " I'll die without you in my life.." or "If you don't marry me i'll die...can't live without you" )) To you your lover is the best person. Also, the most beautiful person in the world in your eyes. Even a superstar, a model, a hot guy/gal can't distract your mind from the one you love ... 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
현애 Posted June 8, 2011 Author Share Posted June 8, 2011 You may live without a normal friend...but you feel like you can't even live, breathe or do anything without your lover. Some lovers say to each other " I'll die without you in my life.." or "If you don't marry me i'll die...can't live without you" )) To you your lover is the best person. Also, the most beautiful person in the world in your eyes. Even a superstar, a model, a hot guy/gal can't distract your mind from the one you love ... i like this opinion...it's true!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
yojichan Posted June 8, 2011 Share Posted June 8, 2011 Love and friendship is subjective. There are no right or wrong ways to describe it. You can befriend someone but you don't necessarily have to love that someone. You can love humanity but that doesn't mean that you can befriend everyone either. And then again you can love your friend yet you set boundaries that this kind of love doesn't make you lovers. Some lovers do not start as friends either. Some friends make the best lovers. For me love is not supposed to be complicated. When you love someone, you just do. You just express it. It's unconditional. It's free. Friendship needs to be earned and nurtured in order to survive. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lilredphoenix Posted June 25, 2011 Share Posted June 25, 2011 As for myself I have often pondered this question as well just so I could have some personal guideline I could reference to when encountering/meeting people. I think for myself I consider Friendship whether with a female or male to be platonic and although I may care deeply for them to the point of love it would not be defined on that level of love in regards to a serious relationship. Love would be considered a serious relationship/partnership there would be things spoken of or shared that would not be even considered at the level of a friendship. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Marygrace94 Posted October 9, 2013 Share Posted October 9, 2013 of course, love and friendship are not the same at all.. friendship is like talking to the people you know, interacting with them communicating with them and all. like your best friend, the relationship you have with him/her is friendship. According to Aristotle, there are 3 types of friendship, that of utility, friendship of pleasure, and virtuous friendship. friendship should be highly valued with virtue and it is above honour and justice. friendship of utility is like your relationship with your classmate, your'e friends with him in terms of utitly. like, you borrow ballpen, or ask for papers or answers and such. you see the person ( your classmate only as a utility). the second one, pleasure is like the first one, it is base on personal gain. however, the third one is the more high type, this is the type of friendship which is not based on any personal matter, it is not subjective, it is wishing for the good of the other. this type is based on love for the other though not the type of a romantic love. Love on the other hand, pertains to what we generally call love. well, there are many types of love but if what your 'love' here pertains 'romantic love' like having a lover then it is really different to friendship. love is eternal, though i'm not saying that friendship is not. love is not solely based on your heart thumping2 everytime you see the one you love or any sort, it is much more than that. it does not just revolve on feelings itself but it revolves on the whole being of the person. love and friendship, therefore, is different but it is connected.(there is a paradox here, different but connected).true friendship is based on love and love is much more than what you feel to your friends. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Georg Posted October 11, 2013 Share Posted October 11, 2013 Love and Friendship...... As for me, I guess these two words are very much related. Love is like an umbrella term where friendship belongs to. The difference though is the amount of love, concern and effort you give which puts every person you love to a certain category, may it be parental, friendship or romantic. Its like we have invisible bonds to everyone in our lives and that link is actually stronger or weak based on how much we give out love to those respective individuals. it just made me realize that love is more of concern, of wanting to know more of that certain person so that you can actually care more. And how much you care puts that certain person into a category. Like here in YO, were like acquaintances and it evolves as we get to know each other more. There! Hahahahahahahaha! I hope I have given you another perspective you can consider. P.S. But whatever it is, it is better to have loved and lost than to not love at all, may it be friendship. They are both good things as long as they are controlled and true. You can hold on to that if you really can't differentiate. Let's spread the Love!!!! (and YAOI!!!) Wahahahahahahaha! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
robertita Posted October 12, 2013 Share Posted October 12, 2013 I met many people and I learn few things about friendship. There are persons who came to you just to cry - about problems and so - once they are feeling well they leave without looking back. There are others who are next to you every day - but speaking about the same things over and over again - so boring. And there are just few who are there whenever you need them - they listen you and even feels when you are sad or in a bad mood without you telling them, they can see your tears and stop them. They are real friends, the diamonds that are rare and hard to find. When you find one treasure him/her with all you have. Also what's important is the QUALITY of a friend, not the quantity. I prefer to have few friends but real, than many and bads. Love is just love. Something you can feel but can't stop. It's the sentiment that makes you to keep living even you are down. If you have real friends and feel their love you have all to be happy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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