SailorRishi Posted September 26, 2011 Share Posted September 26, 2011 my heart was/is broken and i dont know what to do with my pain.but atleast that give me the idea to open the thread. what are you doing when somebody breaks your heart??how you react...? .... eats some ice cream (as in the stupid usa movie lolXD) /gets drunk....or you fall in love with someone else to forget the old ....(begin to live a promiscuous life)??? or will you only jump from the bridge (not seriously)??? i'd personally like to kill my self ... i´m a very emotional/passionate person and when i love someone...uhh thats really bad. ....have some really bad charas. i have very bad obsessive masochistic disposition..and when someone broke my heart he broke me all not only my heart... its not easy to share my feelings with you all...but hope of some interesting answers...maybe some nice word to me 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nena21 Posted September 30, 2011 Share Posted September 30, 2011 Oh dear! So sorry to hear that, hope you feel a bit better... Lots of hugs for you foxy3 To answer the question, I am your opposite, a very, but very sadistic person, so, I would just rip him or her off :hamtaro-005 (14): If he/she broke my heart I'd break his/her leg, head, something And after that I'd go drink and drink until I feel better Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kai. Posted September 30, 2011 Share Posted September 30, 2011 I know we all wish that there was an easy solution sometime during our lives. Unfortunately, the only thing you can do is give yourself some time. I know that is an old cliche, but time does help. You must force yourself to try and keep busy with anything you possibly can think off. Surround yourself with loving, supportive, family and friends that’s what I do…then get drunk..lol hope u feel better Rishi foxy3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SailorRishi Posted October 1, 2011 Author Share Posted October 1, 2011 tnx for support. i thing still the best way is to gets drunk....lol. actually my own fault, I'm always seeking the person who will torturing me.... and somehow I like that . .. and if I get dumped ... I also enjoy the suffering afterwards ... I know I'm weird... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hinata--chan Posted October 1, 2011 Share Posted October 1, 2011 Heart breaks are hard . But your a great person you should try your best not to get so down . He let you go . He's not worth your time , tears , and def not your death . Its good to be passionate . I am too . But no man/woman is worth that . Have a good cry its ok but don't dwell on it . Obviously he wasn't the one for you . ^^ Instead learn from this be careful with your heart . And enjoy life do things to distract from it . Easier said then done I know its hard but you have friends here you can talk to when you feel low . *hugs* Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SailorRishi Posted October 2, 2011 Author Share Posted October 2, 2011 @hinata--chan tnx sweetie for your support. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rotten boy Posted October 2, 2011 Share Posted October 2, 2011 SailorRishi big hugs I know how you feel But your life is to inproten to throw away on heart brake. More hugs . 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Minto Posted October 2, 2011 Share Posted October 2, 2011 Poor SailorRishi! Hope you'll feel better! ♥ Lächeln! 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SailorRishi Posted October 2, 2011 Author Share Posted October 2, 2011 tnx rottenboy and Picheripunky I'm actually not expected so many nice words to me, i make the topic to exchange different experiences. I am honored and thankful to you all. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
鼠ドル Posted October 2, 2011 Share Posted October 2, 2011 Hope you feel better soon Rishi~ What I do when my heart gets broken? Hm... I'm not sure if that's ever really happened. Don't really fall in love, I guess. If someone hurts me I'm basically a fucking bitch to them lol, then I'd probably drink and listen to music until I'd feel less pissed off/hurt. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
yojichan Posted October 3, 2011 Share Posted October 3, 2011 I got my heart broken one too many times by different people and not just some people I'm involved with romantically. There were also friends and family. Because the pain may vary at certain degrees but they all hurt like hell. I don't drink alcohol. So my form of therapy is writing. From poetry to stories to keeping a journal. When I see the words in front of me...the pain is easing up little by little....until it's no longer heavy. The stories and poetry that I keep very close to my heart and are often the happiest are the ones written when I am in a state of depression. So I get to channel all that into writing. When my heart broke from a first love...I mourned that person for a YEAR I also heavily distract myself with work, activities with friends, events, and I get to talk about my woes with people I trust. At times like these, time is your friend. You have to let it take its course. Don't force a wound to heal when you haven't scarred yet. Never forget to keep praying for peace of mind. I hope this helps. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cherryyuri Posted October 3, 2011 Share Posted October 3, 2011 sailor dearr! *hugs you tiightt* for me, what i do is first, give myself some time to "enjoy" the pain. usually a couple of days. i allow myself to feel awful, to cry, to lock myself in the room away from the world and cry as much as i feel like crying. yes, i eat ice cream (and everything else. haha) i do whatever i want. even if want to do something "wrong" i do it. after that hun, i wipe my tears, get up and forget about it. have you ever seen the movie "Elizabethtown"? it's one of my favorites and i love the character Claire Coulburn, i relate myself to her in a lot of ways. i love 2 quotes that she says in the movie about sadness: 1 "Sadness is easier because its surrender. I say make time to dance alone with one hand waving free." (yeah, be silly) 2 "Give yourself 5 minutes to enjoy sadness. Enjoy it, embrace it, discard it and proceed." I completely agree with both of them and that's what i always have in mind when i'm sad. try it. see if it works with you! If you need anything hun, even if it is just talk a little bit, I'm here! 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SailorRishi Posted October 3, 2011 Author Share Posted October 3, 2011 tnx people for your suggestions. love you all foxy2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lilredphoenix Posted October 18, 2011 Share Posted October 18, 2011 I guess for me people should count their blessings because there are a lot of people I know that haven't ever been on a date or a serious relationship yet and if you have been in a relationship then consider yourself fortunate to have had that experience even though it ended. There are so many out there still searching and the lonliness can really hurt. Also I think it's rare but not unheard of finding that one person you want to spend the rest of your life with whether or not marriage is considered. Like a high school or college sweetheart and that was the only person you have been with. Most of the time people who through several/many relationships before finding that one special person. Just remember you are special and unique and you will find happiness with someone who can truly appreciate you for who and what you are and what you are trying to do with your life. Remember there are people who care about you and love you whether it may be immediate family, relatives, friends or co-workers. You are special, because you are you SailorRishi. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BRIDGET Posted October 18, 2011 Share Posted October 18, 2011 Lord what a topic. I'm sorry to hear that, I big sunny hug from here. Maybe it sounds odd but when my boyfriend smashed my heart( we knew each other since I was 6 & he was 9) I ran away to London... I felt so miserable & despised that I needed time on my own. The first days I cried my heart out, broke things, got drunk till feeling puking, other things that I only know & won't do again..... My best friend helped me a lot when I came back several months later. I had a hard time when I got to meet him again after 2 years(being in love with him for 5 years or almost all my life) but recently I realized I don't give a damn anymore. It took me 2 years but time & alchool helps a lot.Another thing that helps it's to train yourself to not to fall in love again, it makes life much easier... I hope you get better & I'm here if you need sth. Kisses 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wolfy Posted October 23, 2011 Share Posted October 23, 2011 I´m drewing the pain out....ooorr....well Im kinda just braeking down I´m not strong at all and many of my freinds have to keep a eye on me and make me rememeber to eat. but trying to do things I think that is funny to do Love is a hard thing to me and is hard for me to just let someone in. my ex-girlfriend found out have to open me up so is it was really hard when we brok up. so now I´m kinda afraid for love OTL But I´m hoppying that you are okay now D: 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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