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How did yaoi change your life?


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It somehow gave me self esteem and hope.

Yaoi turned me into a hopeless romantic too. And because of that, I always have high standards when it comes to a relationship.

I can't really tell if it changed my life for the better or for the worse but all I can say is that I don't regret anything about yaoi at all. :leaf5:

 

 

How did it change your life? Did it change your life for the good or for the bad?

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Hm, it didn't change anything that much, though now I'm more inclined to pair up the male characters in most shows/movies/manga/books etc than I was before :cuteonion50:

Oh, but it gave me some of the best friends I could before only dream off! :cuteonion48:

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I myself am an homosexual so that's kind of strange to read something like yaoi manga for me (because I'm lesbian after all:)) But you know, I've seen a lot of gay films and stuff because I have gay friends and all.. And I think that although yaoi stories aren't real (even very distant from reality) but they are good and fun to read (or to watch). Sometimes you could just sigh - ,,If just it could be like this in real life!" But even then - it's good that such stories exist: they could gave some courage and even the will to go on, to believe that there's a chance your life could become just like a fairy-tale:) I think that such stories could encourage to be more tolerant and honest with yourself and the others;)

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i was the type of person who would bury all the unpleasant feelings deep inside me so as to not upset peoples and to not blow up on others because i would most likely say something i'd regret. ever since i started getting more into yaoi it has become somewhat harder to control my feelings and not let them slip. so i'm glad i'm obsessed with this!

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It has given me a way to completly get myself away from real life, and to forget for a bit what is going on.

Im not sure if its a good thing though cause ive become totally addicted to bl novels, and sometimes the stories make me a bit more depressed cause i kinda wish things would be like that in real life....

Suffering from anxietys n self harming n depression etc is hard spmetimes but thanks to one writer of a bl novel they saved my life literally, so i guess i keep reading them hoping some of them knock some sense into me if i need it.

 

I have also started to pair up anyone i see now lol i think,maybe theynr together lol ;) its fun n makes me smile.

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It's a nice passtime when work's very stressful and I need to clear my head. And it led me to this forum, where my addiction's exploded and I've become even crazier for it. It's certainly become more time-consuming, but in a good way

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