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Im hetero but one of by best friends is a lesbian and her dad is totally fine with it, her brother is also gay :)

another one of my friends was having a lesbian relationship and didnt tell her mum, when she found out by accident they had a massive fight :/

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I guess I would be pansexual, I'm not really bothered about sexual preference as long as the person looks good and has a nice personality :) But I don't tell anyone that, not even my friends, perhaps just my sister. My mum did suspect once that i did like a girl (which I did) but I just told her, I didn't like her romantically.

God only knows how much she'll kill me if she found out I was not 100% straight...:cuteonion51:

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I am hetrosexual but could be bisexual since I will publicly kiss my female best friend on the mouth right in front of her boyfriend of four plus years. But it I was with a woman I would be uke. Otherwise I am quite comfortible with my down right blunt perverted character. I find reading Yaoi to be an interesting hobby and time wasteter. There is just something about two men together that sparks my interest. I am pro gay marriage and all that Jazz.

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Yes! I came out as pansexual to my mum and a few of my close friends; my personal theory is to tell the truth if someone asks me directly, but most often people never actually think of asking... also I think most of my friends know that I'm a bit of an 'uke' (although they won't know what that word means lol)

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I indirectly confessed to my mom that I may be a bisexual girl. :x I liked several girls in my school and I even ''fantasized'' about them. My friends knew this too because I told them, and they always tease me that I'm a ''lesbian''. :p Lol, though I'm not still sure of my real sexual preference. Maybe I just admire those girls in a whole new level. xD

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..I'm still under development... ummm I feel like a homosexual male trapped in a females body....I have this urge to go after ukes (in my eyes)... I like men, just not in the normal way a lady should like I guy... I'm really confused...

 

Umm... whether my parents know...they've been somewhere very far for a long time... so there was no chance...

But when I'm already certain and there's a need for them to know... I'll definitely tell my father first :)...

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I've had a girlfriend before but she cheated on me so I broke up with her even though it still hurts. Then I meet a guy I fell in love I had a crush on him and now we're sill together till this day, even though I have a thing for girls I also have a girlfriend and they don't mind. So I'm Bi. In the future I have to make a choice which is tough but I'm young still. :3

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..I'm still under development... ummm I feel like a homosexual male trapped in a females body....I have this urge to go after ukes (in my eyes)... I like men, just not in the normal way a lady should like I guy... I'm really confused...

 

I feel exactly the same!!

I thought I was totally weird...

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I'm female and I haven't figured out my sexuality yet, not sure if I fully have one, and tend to think it would be easier to figure out if I was male >.>

I was introduced to yaoi in junior high and have like various forms of it since then, but I've never 'fooled around'. I think I'm going to need to fully get my own place before I'm comfortable trying to experiment. Every type of place is so expensive in the area I live in though :(

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yes those i told my sexuality know of it, and support me. but the person im with my boyfriend knows of it and prefers we not talk about it since i mentioned it all the time wen i first came out to him...he wants me with him, and afraid that ill be with someone of the same sex, a girl since im a girl myself.

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I had a few relationship with boys and girls so I assumed I'm Bisexual.

 

*Its not that my sexual preference is secret, Its just that I'm not the type of person who's blabbering about his/her sexual preference without asking him/her.

 

My cousins, friends and classmates knows it. But I don't know with my mother, though I keep on joking her that I would be bringing my girlfriend. *laughs I really want to know her reactions. "she's always smiling.

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mm...I'm straight, but a bit of boyish.. sometimes I kind of like women.. I remember that my mom asks me if I'm a Girl or a Gay..haha my mom also told me that when I was a baby, I am a boy and morphed into a girl..haha!

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Yeah, I'm fairly open about my sexuality. I still remember when I was coming out, how I told the first person I ever had (in college), and then telling my mom. That... was interesting...

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my fams dont know and i really dont want they to know about it.. but some of my besties know that i'm bi and have a relationship with guy also.

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I got myself incredibly worked up when I first decided to tell my mother I was bisexual. When I made my big confession, all nervous and freaked out, her response was "Really? Thats all you were worried about? I've known that for years." It was news to me, cause I had only just realized myself a few months before.

 

Coming out to my step dad was a bit more accidental.

 

My parents were supposed to be gone overnight and not back until the next afternoon so I invited a guy and a girl I was close with to come stay the night. My parents showed back up at the house in the middle of the night, in the middle of the action, so to speak. We were in the bedroom and no one busted in, but the next morning I had to explain three voices and introduce my TWO friends. I thought I might die, but my step dad took it well. It was almost worth it, cause up till then I had never seen my partner blush. I almost thought they weren't capable.

 

At this point I'm pretty open about my sexuality. All my friends know and most of my family. I dont really talk about it at work, but only because I dont really talk about myself personally at work. I dont lie when asked, though.

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I like guys and girls, so I'm bisexual

well, I'm a girl and I'm bisexual, but my family does not know.

Now I have a girlfriend, but our relationship is secret ... I dare not confess to my family that I'm bisexual because they are closed minded :c

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I've never been one to talk about sexuality and the like in front of my parents because I know that my father won't take it well and my mom would probably tell me to go pray the rosary a million times or whatever. Only my friends know about me being bisexual -- well, except for one lest the news reaches my sister. Anyway, I'm still glad that some of my friends are really open about it. I even actually tell them about my one-year crush on a girl and how I am happy to live in one dormitory with her.

 

I'm quite jealous of some of you guys who have parents who are accepting. I'm not sure if I would be able to tell my parents about my being inclined to liking both sexes.

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Hmm, to tell the truth I can't figure out what my sexual preference is. I think I'm straight since I've had crushes on tons of guys, but I also think I could be bisexual because I also think I have a crush on a girl. We are friends, and we often hug and a couple of times she has kissed my head, but I can't tell if she has a crush on me. And recently, I've been having "fantasies" of her, which leads to me thinking I'm bisexual. If I was, then I could never tell my parents because they are against that sort of stuff. Gosh, I'm so confused...

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Most people know I'm a bisexual male, which my mom and sister have accepted it. My dad on the other hand has a problem with it. Being the last male heir in the family has something to do with it I believe (never telling the grandparents, I don't want them to have a heart attack). onion4

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